I get many of the same questions over and over again, so I thought I would put them in a question and answer session, in the hopes that other callers-to-be will find that their questions from me are already answered. If you don't find the answer to a question you have though, please feel free to IM or email me. I can't always answer every IM, because a lot of times I am on a call, but I do answer every email within 24 hours.


What kind of calls do you like to do?
Well I like most domme calls, especially the sensual tease and denial ones, but I also like to do humiliation, cuckold, and femme ones.

Do you do cbt?
I do very light cbt, such as having the caller tie his cock and balls up, and perhaps even spanking them, but that’s about as far as I care to go. I don’t do anything harsher than this in real life, so I’m not going to pretend to be an expert on the phone.
There are other dommes on cockcontrol that do cbt, so you won’t have to look far to find one that fits your needs.

Are you actually a lifestyle domme?
Yes, I have been both a sub and a domme in real life. At the present, I have a female sub who is in her 20's, and a male sub who is in his 40's and is a pharmacist. What most people don’t realize is though, that I make him wear little silk panties and thigh high stockings under his pants. Of course we do lots of other things, but I would rather not discuss them here.

When I talked to you on IM, you seemed very pleasant, not like a domme at all....
Well, even when you talk to me on the phone, you will find that I can be quite nice. I have a quiet pleasant voice, and I prefer not to raise it. But that doesn’t mean I can’t and won’t tear you to shreds on a humiliation call. Personally I feel that telling a caller what a pile of shit he is with a calm, quiet voice degrades him more than losing your temper and screaming at him. But that’s just my style and I’m certainly not trying to put down other dommes for having another style than mine.

When I talked to you on IM, you were nice, but you wouldn’t talk sex with me...
Nope, and I’m not going to. I will chat and be pleasant with you, but you will have to pay for sex talk from me. If you’re not comfortable doing a phone call, we can also set up a texting session, but the price ($1.99/minute) is the same.

Why do you do this job anyway?
Because I like it. It’s a great job, and I get to meet very interesting people and talk about something that interests me a lot, that is of course, sex. For a more detailed answer please see my entry dated August 18.

Do you think I’m weird because I want to dress up in ladies’ clothing?
Ummm, no. Not when you’ve heard some of the things I’ve heard on phonesex calls and done things that I’ve done in real life. I can’t go into detail on those, but if you’re curious you can always call me up at 800-730-9419 and I’ll be glad to tell you about some of my weirder calls, and/or some of my experiences, if you're interested.
I do think that the reasons a lot of crossdressers and transexuals call me is because as a female, I can give them validation as well as a sympathetic ear.

You sound like the girl of my dreams! When can we meet?
Ok, a couple of things....
I’m not a girl, I’m a 36 year old mistress.
Doubt if you could handle me if we did meet, and I’d probably be your worst nightmare :-D
And no we can’t meet. I don’t meet callers.

What if I paid you?
Believe me you don’t have the money it takes to get me to come to take of you little pet, so don’t even try. If you have that much money, you are welcome to call me as much as you like ;-)